How I Used This Powerful Secret To Manifest My Soulmate
How do you find your soulmate? This is a very important question that many clients have asked me over the years. Even I, for a long time, asked the exact same question, searching for the illusive answers on my quest to attract a deeply loving relationship.
Just like many of you, I experienced all kinds of disastrous relationships with men who didn't know my worth. From my first ever relationship at 16 when I was abused, to other boyfriends who simply didn't care and were cold and distant, to relationships that were slightly better, but ultimately I felt, on a deeper level, that they didn't really "get" me. I started to feel isolated and lonely even when in the partnership.
And then there were the "situationships" as I like to call them, the types of experiences with men that started off with huge amounts of chemistry (on both sides) but never seemed to go anywhere. The chemistry would be red hot and the sexual tension so palpable you could almost cut it with a knife. But it would never turn into anything serious.
There were relationships that were filled with so much love and tenderness, but then there would always be a big issue, some sort of insurmountable block, almost always related to fear that would prevent us from being together. Those were the toughest "situationships" to let go of.
My heart became exhausted. I literally couldn't carry on in this way anymore. I knew I had to take a break.
So I "gave up" on love for a while and became okay with the idea of being single. I genuinely believed at the time that I would remain single for the rest of my life because relationships just seemed so complicated and exhausting. It seemed easier to just give up and it was a relief from all the heartbreak.
However, after a few months, I began to get my strength back. I began to feel healed and rejuvenated, ready to delve back into the idea of dating and relationships.
You see, I always felt in my heart that I was meant to have a soulmate, I was meant to meet the love of my life and have a happy and fulfilling relationship. Something deep inside me always knew that. After all, it is our birthright to experience profoundly fulfilling relationships.
Just like many of you, I experienced all kinds of disastrous relationships with men who didn't know my worth. From my first ever relationship at 16 when I was abused, to other boyfriends who simply didn't care and were cold and distant, to relationships that were slightly better, but ultimately I felt, on a deeper level, that they didn't really "get" me. I started to feel isolated and lonely even when in the partnership.
And then there were the "situationships" as I like to call them, the types of experiences with men that started off with huge amounts of chemistry (on both sides) but never seemed to go anywhere. The chemistry would be red hot and the sexual tension so palpable you could almost cut it with a knife. But it would never turn into anything serious.
There were relationships that were filled with so much love and tenderness, but then there would always be a big issue, some sort of insurmountable block, almost always related to fear that would prevent us from being together. Those were the toughest "situationships" to let go of.
My heart became exhausted. I literally couldn't carry on in this way anymore. I knew I had to take a break.
So I "gave up" on love for a while and became okay with the idea of being single. I genuinely believed at the time that I would remain single for the rest of my life because relationships just seemed so complicated and exhausting. It seemed easier to just give up and it was a relief from all the heartbreak.
However, after a few months, I began to get my strength back. I began to feel healed and rejuvenated, ready to delve back into the idea of dating and relationships.
You see, I always felt in my heart that I was meant to have a soulmate, I was meant to meet the love of my life and have a happy and fulfilling relationship. Something deep inside me always knew that. After all, it is our birthright to experience profoundly fulfilling relationships.
I had a sneaking suspicion that all of my trials and tribulations in relationships had been designed as a profound learning curve, as a way to make me realise one day that I deserved better than what I had been chasing after.
In that time of "giving up" on searching for my soulmate, I had time to look back at all my past relationship disasters, my failed efforts and repeatedly broken heart and I discovered something extremely important. Something so important that it had prevented me from being able to attract a healthy and loving relationship for all those years.
All this time I had believed it was about the other person - they didn't want me, they didn't want a relationship, they didn't care about me etc. But suddenly the truth hit me like a lightning bolt:
I had been chasing men's love and approval because I didn't love myself!
I had subconsciously believed that I had to find the validation of my worth from somebody else, that I had to just keep searching on the outside. I'd been doing that for decades, only to bet met by half-arsed men, who really didn't give a damn. A loving and healthy relationship had continued to elude me.
I realised that my approach had been all wrong! I had wanted an amazing, healthy and fulfilling relationship with another, but I did not have that with myself!
It had taken me so long to fully understand this, I could have kicked myself when I realised I had wasted so many years going round in circles of heartbreak and misery when I didn't need to.
So with this new understanding of my past patterns, I asked myself, how could I approach finding my soulmate in a completely different way? A way that would actually align me with a loving, supportive and nurturing relationship with a wonderful man?
In that time of "giving up" on searching for my soulmate, I had time to look back at all my past relationship disasters, my failed efforts and repeatedly broken heart and I discovered something extremely important. Something so important that it had prevented me from being able to attract a healthy and loving relationship for all those years.
All this time I had believed it was about the other person - they didn't want me, they didn't want a relationship, they didn't care about me etc. But suddenly the truth hit me like a lightning bolt:
I had been chasing men's love and approval because I didn't love myself!
I had subconsciously believed that I had to find the validation of my worth from somebody else, that I had to just keep searching on the outside. I'd been doing that for decades, only to bet met by half-arsed men, who really didn't give a damn. A loving and healthy relationship had continued to elude me.
I realised that my approach had been all wrong! I had wanted an amazing, healthy and fulfilling relationship with another, but I did not have that with myself!
It had taken me so long to fully understand this, I could have kicked myself when I realised I had wasted so many years going round in circles of heartbreak and misery when I didn't need to.
So with this new understanding of my past patterns, I asked myself, how could I approach finding my soulmate in a completely different way? A way that would actually align me with a loving, supportive and nurturing relationship with a wonderful man?
So I started doing my research. I came across the teachings of the Law of Attraction. There were so many stories of people who had completely turned their life around in a very short amount of time, attracting an amazing relationship with a wonderful soulmate. If these people could do it, then I could too.
I learned all about how our vibration sends out signals to the universe that mirror back to us. Whatever we believe about ourselves and the world around us manifests as our reality.
I discovered that I had been sending out signals or "beliefs" that I was unlovable, unworthy and un-special. My childhood wounds of abandonment and rejection had been lurking in my unconscious for all that time and were energetically blocking me from knowing my worth.
When I didn't know my worth, I attracted men who also didn't know my worth. So I started chasing after their validation and love even harder, only to have them run away even faster. Love had always felt like it was slipping through my fingers.
But now armed with the knowledge that my own beliefs about myself and my worth were directly affecting my ability to attract a truly fulfilling relationship, I decided from that day on to change my beliefs about myself. I decided I was going to love myself like never before.
I finally understood that other people were not responsible for my happiness. It was not their job to fill in my voids. I had unconsciously been sabotaging my relationships with men because I had unconsciously placed that huge burden on their shoulders, obviously a burden which was not theirs to carry, and would have been impossible for them to carry.
So I set to work on loving myself so deeply and profoundly that even if I didn't attract a soulmate, I would still be completely happy and fulfilled in my life and in myself.
I learned all about how our vibration sends out signals to the universe that mirror back to us. Whatever we believe about ourselves and the world around us manifests as our reality.
I discovered that I had been sending out signals or "beliefs" that I was unlovable, unworthy and un-special. My childhood wounds of abandonment and rejection had been lurking in my unconscious for all that time and were energetically blocking me from knowing my worth.
When I didn't know my worth, I attracted men who also didn't know my worth. So I started chasing after their validation and love even harder, only to have them run away even faster. Love had always felt like it was slipping through my fingers.
But now armed with the knowledge that my own beliefs about myself and my worth were directly affecting my ability to attract a truly fulfilling relationship, I decided from that day on to change my beliefs about myself. I decided I was going to love myself like never before.
I finally understood that other people were not responsible for my happiness. It was not their job to fill in my voids. I had unconsciously been sabotaging my relationships with men because I had unconsciously placed that huge burden on their shoulders, obviously a burden which was not theirs to carry, and would have been impossible for them to carry.
So I set to work on loving myself so deeply and profoundly that even if I didn't attract a soulmate, I would still be completely happy and fulfilled in my life and in myself.
I started using all of the Law of Attraction principles, techniques and rituals that I had learned to cultivate a profoundly high level of self worth within myself.
I did whatever I could to be happy in myself and my life - meditations, new hobbies, goals and projects, socialising more with friends and family, journalling exercises etc etc.
I became so enthralled in my life and so at peace with myself that I no longer needed to chase love and approval outside of myself. I had created my wholeness within. In fact, I forgot all about dating and relationships - I was having so much fun!
This is when something really interesting happened! Something completely unexpected and totally mindblowing!
I was out with two of my friends and it was New Years Eve. Funnily enough, they were talking about all of their recent dating disasters with men. There were some funny dating calamities, some truly bizarre characters they'd met and some downright, bordering on creepy meet ups. It was a cringe fest!
I couldn't help but wince because these stories had all been too real for me also in the not so distant past. I tried to offer some of the advice I had learned about self-love and the law of attraction, but they were not yet ready to hear it at that time, and that is okay.
They carried on with their stories and I could completely relate to the confusion and exhaustion they were going through, as I once went through myself too. I listened to their dating disaster stories but tried not to engage as I know that whatever we focus on we attract more of into our lives.
Well, later on that night, when I got home, I realised how far I had come. I had seen the old me in their stories. I felt their pain as they relieved their experiences.
But I felt such a huge elation at the realisation that I was never going to experience any kind of relationship disaster like that ever again. I knew I would never attract those kinds of experiences again because my new vibration would no longer align me with that. It felt like such a relief!
I did whatever I could to be happy in myself and my life - meditations, new hobbies, goals and projects, socialising more with friends and family, journalling exercises etc etc.
I became so enthralled in my life and so at peace with myself that I no longer needed to chase love and approval outside of myself. I had created my wholeness within. In fact, I forgot all about dating and relationships - I was having so much fun!
This is when something really interesting happened! Something completely unexpected and totally mindblowing!
I was out with two of my friends and it was New Years Eve. Funnily enough, they were talking about all of their recent dating disasters with men. There were some funny dating calamities, some truly bizarre characters they'd met and some downright, bordering on creepy meet ups. It was a cringe fest!
I couldn't help but wince because these stories had all been too real for me also in the not so distant past. I tried to offer some of the advice I had learned about self-love and the law of attraction, but they were not yet ready to hear it at that time, and that is okay.
They carried on with their stories and I could completely relate to the confusion and exhaustion they were going through, as I once went through myself too. I listened to their dating disaster stories but tried not to engage as I know that whatever we focus on we attract more of into our lives.
Well, later on that night, when I got home, I realised how far I had come. I had seen the old me in their stories. I felt their pain as they relieved their experiences.
But I felt such a huge elation at the realisation that I was never going to experience any kind of relationship disaster like that ever again. I knew I would never attract those kinds of experiences again because my new vibration would no longer align me with that. It felt like such a relief!
Within two weeks of that night out with my friends, I met my soulmate. It was totally unexpected. It blows my mind (and his) when we think about the synchronous events that lead to our meeting.
The universe truly is amazing at putting people and places together at the same time to bring them together.
We both realise we would not have been ready to meet and be together if we had not gone through all the trials and tribulations of previous relationship disasters and the knowledge and self love we learned to cultivate as a result.
Our relationship is happy, healthy and fulfilling. We are good at communicating and working through any issues that arise (because there will always be some little bumps in the road in a relationship, even a soulmate relationship).
We work well as a team, he openly expresses his feelings, shows affection and is ready for a commitment. We share the same goals, world views and have very in depth philosophical discussions. He's a lightworked, just like I am.
I attracted a soulmate who has already done a lot of the inner work, also like me, so it makes the relationship much easier.
One of my friends I'd met up with that night on New Years Eve, still spends a lot of time bemoaning her dating disasters. She's still not open to really listening about the Law of Attraction, but that's okay, I understand, we cannot help someone if they aren't ready to help themselves. To this day, she is still chasing after toxic men.
Many of us go through that stage. It's part of the learning curve, but that stage doesn't have to last as long as it often does!
When we gain knowledge of the Law of Attraction and how we can become the creator of our own reality, how we can attract deeply fulfilling relationships, then we can skip all that heartache and turn everything around in our favour.
The universe truly is amazing at putting people and places together at the same time to bring them together.
We both realise we would not have been ready to meet and be together if we had not gone through all the trials and tribulations of previous relationship disasters and the knowledge and self love we learned to cultivate as a result.
Our relationship is happy, healthy and fulfilling. We are good at communicating and working through any issues that arise (because there will always be some little bumps in the road in a relationship, even a soulmate relationship).
We work well as a team, he openly expresses his feelings, shows affection and is ready for a commitment. We share the same goals, world views and have very in depth philosophical discussions. He's a lightworked, just like I am.
I attracted a soulmate who has already done a lot of the inner work, also like me, so it makes the relationship much easier.
One of my friends I'd met up with that night on New Years Eve, still spends a lot of time bemoaning her dating disasters. She's still not open to really listening about the Law of Attraction, but that's okay, I understand, we cannot help someone if they aren't ready to help themselves. To this day, she is still chasing after toxic men.
Many of us go through that stage. It's part of the learning curve, but that stage doesn't have to last as long as it often does!
When we gain knowledge of the Law of Attraction and how we can become the creator of our own reality, how we can attract deeply fulfilling relationships, then we can skip all that heartache and turn everything around in our favour.
We can start attracting true love without all the struggles and pain. When we learn to have unstoppable self-worth, it's a complete game changer.
I attracted my soulmate in 4 months since learning all the techniques, rituals and principles.
I even helped my other friend from the New Years Eve night to find her soulmate. She was open to learning. She came to me and asked me how I did it, how I attracted my relationship with my soulmate. You see, she had witnessed all of my own dating troubles over the years and had often been a shoulder to cry on.
She was curious what my secret was. How had I turned everything around and found the One?
So I began teaching her everything I had learned and practiced over the past few months. And it worked for her too! She is now with her own soulmate, they are engaged and planning to get married next summer.
I was so thrilled to see her find happiness and a wonderful man.
So this is when it got really interesting.
She knew that I had a thriving YouTube channel where I help others with relationship advice, so she suggested I create an online course to spread this vital information to help you all find your soulmate too, like I had found my own and helped her find her's.
So I followed her advice and set to work to create an in depth online course outlining the step by step process to heal yourself, know your worth and attract your soulmate.
I attracted my soulmate in 4 months since learning all the techniques, rituals and principles.
I even helped my other friend from the New Years Eve night to find her soulmate. She was open to learning. She came to me and asked me how I did it, how I attracted my relationship with my soulmate. You see, she had witnessed all of my own dating troubles over the years and had often been a shoulder to cry on.
She was curious what my secret was. How had I turned everything around and found the One?
So I began teaching her everything I had learned and practiced over the past few months. And it worked for her too! She is now with her own soulmate, they are engaged and planning to get married next summer.
I was so thrilled to see her find happiness and a wonderful man.
So this is when it got really interesting.
She knew that I had a thriving YouTube channel where I help others with relationship advice, so she suggested I create an online course to spread this vital information to help you all find your soulmate too, like I had found my own and helped her find her's.
So I followed her advice and set to work to create an in depth online course outlining the step by step process to heal yourself, know your worth and attract your soulmate.
I've been working really hard over these past few months to get everything I've learned over these years about the law of attraction and soulmate relationships placed into the course in a simple and easy to understand format. I've created many video lessons, meditations and journalling exercises to help you get stuck in with manifesting the love of your life.
I am thrilled to announce the online course is finally complete and all set to help you find a loving, supportive and nurturing relationship with a wonderful man, your true soulmate.
The Sacred Soulmates Manifestation Course will teach you so many things, including:
⦁ How to fall DEEPLY in love with yourself and KNOW YOUR WORTH
⦁ How to BELIEVE that you will attract the love of your life so he / she manifests
⦁ How to DISSOLVE any hidden defenses your subconscious has used to keep love away
⦁ How to deeply HEAL your inner child so you no longer chase after love and validation outside of yourself, but it naturally aligns with you from your soulmate as a reflection of your own self-love
⦁ How to let LET GO of the past: past heartbreak, holding onto a specific person etc
⦁ How to really KNOW in your entire being that you deserve the BEST in love
⦁ How to LIVE AS IF in order to trick the subconscious into believing you are already with your sacred soulmate so he / she manifests
⦁ How to TAKE ACTION when you are guided to
⦁ How to really enjoy the "waiting" period as you LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL
Are you ready to manifest a deep fulfilling relationship with your soulmate? The person who will love, cherish and adore you. The person who will express their feelings to you, want a commitment and be their beautiful true self with you? The person who will be a reflection of all you desire in a man / woman. The person who is healthy within themselves so can have a healthy relationship with you?
Right now, there is an Early Bird Access to the course, where you receive a huge discount, but be quick because the course is going to go back to full price in just a few days.
The course enrollment will be closing soon, so get in quick. The lessons will be sent to you in increments from August 15th, the official start date.
If you are truly ready to totally transform your love life and attract the One for you, then please check out the course by clicking the link below.
This could be the biggest investment in yourself that you make in your entire life, but it is definitely worth it, to have the happy, fulfilling and deeply loving relationship that is your birthright.
Let me help you find the love of your life:
Click here to Enroll Now for the Course
Love Karen x
I am thrilled to announce the online course is finally complete and all set to help you find a loving, supportive and nurturing relationship with a wonderful man, your true soulmate.
The Sacred Soulmates Manifestation Course will teach you so many things, including:
⦁ How to fall DEEPLY in love with yourself and KNOW YOUR WORTH
⦁ How to BELIEVE that you will attract the love of your life so he / she manifests
⦁ How to DISSOLVE any hidden defenses your subconscious has used to keep love away
⦁ How to deeply HEAL your inner child so you no longer chase after love and validation outside of yourself, but it naturally aligns with you from your soulmate as a reflection of your own self-love
⦁ How to let LET GO of the past: past heartbreak, holding onto a specific person etc
⦁ How to really KNOW in your entire being that you deserve the BEST in love
⦁ How to LIVE AS IF in order to trick the subconscious into believing you are already with your sacred soulmate so he / she manifests
⦁ How to TAKE ACTION when you are guided to
⦁ How to really enjoy the "waiting" period as you LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL
Are you ready to manifest a deep fulfilling relationship with your soulmate? The person who will love, cherish and adore you. The person who will express their feelings to you, want a commitment and be their beautiful true self with you? The person who will be a reflection of all you desire in a man / woman. The person who is healthy within themselves so can have a healthy relationship with you?
Right now, there is an Early Bird Access to the course, where you receive a huge discount, but be quick because the course is going to go back to full price in just a few days.
The course enrollment will be closing soon, so get in quick. The lessons will be sent to you in increments from August 15th, the official start date.
If you are truly ready to totally transform your love life and attract the One for you, then please check out the course by clicking the link below.
This could be the biggest investment in yourself that you make in your entire life, but it is definitely worth it, to have the happy, fulfilling and deeply loving relationship that is your birthright.
Let me help you find the love of your life:
Click here to Enroll Now for the Course
Love Karen x
