How do you come into a balanced and harmonious union with your twin flame..? How do you ground the relationship in the 3D? You may have heard so many ways of achieving this by so many people, yet perhaps you are losing faith that union can happen or ever happens to anyone else... It always seems to be an endless stream of information about how twins are still aligning and working towards the union in some shape or form, and although there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, you may be left wondering if it's all just a long drawn out illusion of wishful thinking.
There were times along my own journey when I gave up faith too. Sometimes I would second guess if this whole "twin thing" was real. I would start to lose hope. In fact, my twin flame reunion didn't fully manifest until I COMPLETELY lost faith! My complete loss of faith turned out to be the unintentional surrender which was needed for our union to occur! It was only after such a deep letting go that I came into a physical and energetic union and relationship with my twin flame. We've been together for about 9 months now.
During this time together I have reflected back on my healing journey leading up to my reunion and asked myself what healing methods helped me the most to get into the relationship I knew I was destined for. I realised that the most important steps I took were to really take the time to know my own worth, know I am lovable and that I deserve the highest loving relationship possible.
By reaching this deep union with myself I raised my vibration significantly. I knew I deserved the best, that I deserved deep and profound love and that spirit wanted me to experience such beautiful love too. I stopped looking for validation on the outside from my twin flame and worked diligently on developing and solidifying my own self-love. By the time I came into union with my twin flame, I had already reached a stage of knowing I didn't need him just to feel good about myself and my life. I felt fantastic and free to have released all the codependency and become at peace within myself.
In order for the outer union to manifest, I had to reach inner union first. What does this mean? Union with self is when we align with our soul truth in human form i.e. we can see beyond our conditioning, illusions and ego created false-self to align with our divine soul consciousness - to know we are lovable, good enough, deserve the best and are perfectly worthy of having this even with our human imperfections.
Union with self is the state of embracing both our divinity and our humanness and merging them into one, embodying both aspects of the self in Love. It's the state of alchemy we reach when we are no longer controlled by the conditioning that takes us away from self-Love and Oneness with Love. The state of self-union opens up the door to union with our twin flame because as within, so without and as above, so below.
But the crucial thing to understand is that union with self is the most important goal on this journey, more important than union with your twin flame because a) self-union leads to true wholeness within (not the superficial kind of "wholeness" of looking outside of ourselves to our twin to fill in a void), b) we cannot achieve union with our twin until we have created union within, and c) union with self becomes the inspiration for others to do the same in order to reach their own true wholeness and dissolving bit by bit the collective paradigm of codependency. This leads us to more worldwide peace.
Our goal for incarnating on Earth is to assist the shift back into REAL Love. This means our soul's top priority is to unite with our truth that we ARE Love, that we are lovable and worthy of Love. We come here to break through the illusion of being separate from Love i.e. the idea that we are "unworthy" of Love because as humans we are inherently flawed and that makes us "bad" and therefore "not good enough" for Love. We are here to learn to unconditionally Love ourselves with all these "flaws" and realise we purposely chose to incarnate with such flaws so there would be further room for growth and expansion. We set ourselves a challenge - "When I incarnate on Earth, take on all the amnesia so I forget my divine perfection, become blinded by the illusions and conditioning which tells me I am unworthy, can I then break through those illusions to return again to self realisation, self-Love, thus helping the collective to return to self-Love and self-union?"
This process allows us to return to the realisation that we are Co-Creators, that we can choose to create more Love in our reality by reconnecting with the Love that we are, the Love that is always here but we simply couldn't see because of the illusions.
When we are totally immersed in the conditioning - the false message that we are unworthy -we are drowning in the shadows of anxiety and fear without even realising how much it is controlling us. We are so engulfed in illusion that we can't see just how much we are operating from the separation paradigm and that it's blocking us from aligning with both union within and union with our twin flame.
Deep down a part of us knows that we are all One, we are all connected. That's Love, the connector of all things. But on this plane of duality we have mistakenly believed we are separate from our true state of Oneness, separated from Love. We conclude that we have been separated from Love because we are unworthy of receiving it. We then believe that we must earn the right to be loved to be reconnected with it again.
We naturally want to become whole again in feeling that we are Loved, seeking the Oneness that Love provides, searching for the Love we mistakenly believe is "missing". Most of our senses teach us to look outside of ourselves, so naturally we assume that being Loved, becoming Oneness and whole again means we must find the missing Love outside of ourselves.
We conclude that the way to find the Love is by moulding ourselves to "fit in" with those around us, to feel like an accepted member of the group or society. We want to feel that sense of belonging and we mistakenly believe that by changing ourselves to fit in we will have "earned" the right to be Loved and feel One again. But in reality, when we go down that path we lose ourselves even more, and feel even more disconnected from Love because we have entered a period of self-judgement, comparison and lack of self-Love.
The constant pull to fit in with and be accepted by everyone becomes so intense that any slight (the tiniest, tiniest!) indication that we don't fit in with the collective can make us believe there's something wrong with us, that we are unlovable, "cut off" and "an outsider".
This fear of "being cut off" from acceptance (Love) causes us to lose sight that Love comes from within - we are always the Love within and when we reconnect with it from within it will show up on the outside too. This illusion of being separated from Love becomes a toxic shroud engulfing us to the point where we are so afraid of outside "rejection" that we begin moulding ourselves into strangers that we don't even recognise. The masks become so automatic that we forget ourselves, our true worth more and more as time goes on. "Who am I again?" We no longer know.
So how do we get back to ourselves, to the Love that we are, the Love that we always connected with, so THEN it can show up on the outside too as a reflection of our joy and sense of self-worth? It's only through conscious effort to go inwards to reconnect with this truth, reunite with our true consciousness - conscious awareness of our worth and lovableness - that we can finally break down the illusions, the shroud that's robbed us of our confidence, self-love and empowerment for so long.
When we consciously connect with our soul truth of Love and worthiness so we can see beyond the false-identity, we reach a HUGE breakthrough! We begin ALIGNING with our true identity, our divinity, our absolute worthiness of Love. We begin to see how lovable we are and have always been no matter what we have done in life or how we've judged ourselves as being unworthy of Love. Our confidence begins returning and we liberate ourselves from the constant fear of rejection because we no longer look outside of ourselves for that false validation - we don't need to - we now see the truth of who we really are from looking within.
We finally know how to Love ourselves and we step out of the false identity fearlessly, embracing and embodying more of our divine self which naturally loves and embraces the divine "imperfections" and UNIQUENESS of our human self.
This huge shift into powerful self-love aligns us again with the Love vibration that we have constantly been seeking. We reunite with ourselves. This allows us to RECEIVE Love and also receive UNION with our twin flame as a reflection of the self-union now attained.
This is exactly how I reached union (including a physical relationship) with my twin flame. Back in 2017 I created one of my most powerful union alignment activations which I believe helped me the most to achieve my reunion with my twin flame. It encompasses all the profound healing techniques I used to learn how to truly connect with my self-worth.
So I began thinking long and hard about my healing "ritual" I had developed and started crafting a powerful healing activation meditation so I could share with you the steps to achieve this profound healing for yourself and your twin flame connection. I wanted to include everything that helped me align with this union.
The activation meditation I created assists you with aligning with you twin flame's, your Soul Family's and your own unconditional self-Love so you can RECEIVE more Love, open yourself to RECEIVE UNION. Your twin flame and Soul Family are the powerful mirrors to help you see how loved you are! I also guide you through some times when you felt rejected and abandoned or when you judged or rejected yourself. I help you heal and purge these damaging experiences when you felt unworthy and unlovable. This clears the blockages, allowing you to reconnect with your self-Love on a whole new level, thus opening your heart to be able to finally TRUST your twin flame's Love for you and energetically allow him/her to align and unite with you. This powerful tool for achieving self-Love naturally aligns your twin flame with their own self-Love too! It makes a remarkable difference! I help you recalibrate your energies to align with your highest timeline and soul blueprint.
These are the healing techniques that worked for me and my twin flame to come into a harmonious and romantic reunion.
If you would like to create HUGE healing shifts, finally release yourself from the imprisoning conditioning of self-judgement and reach union with Love and your twin flame then I invite you to experience this journey with me in I AM LOVE, I RECEIVE LOVE: Powerful Union Alignment Activation.
All it requires is a small effort from you to listen to this meditation on a regular basis. If you listen to it often then you will experience PROFOUND shifts.
I really hope you enjoy the meditation and all the benefits that come with it! I look forward to guiding you on this journey in the meditation!
As always, Love and Light to you,
I AM LOVED, I RECEIVE LOVE: POWERFUL UNION ALIGNMENT ACTIVATION mp3
How do you reach union with your twin flame..? By reaching union with yourself. What does this mean? Union with self is when we can see beyond our conditioning, illusions and ego false self to align with the truth of our divine soul consciousness - to know we are pure, innocent, lovable and perfectly divine even with our human imperfections. Union with self is the state of embracing both our divinity and our humanness and merging those into One, embracing all aspects of ourselves in Love. It's the state we reach when we are no longer controlled by our conditioning which takes us away from self love and oneness, and so we can reconnect with our divine soul truth and live our lives embodying our authenticity. This activates our union with our twin flame because so within, so without, as above, so below.
In this powerful union alignment activation I take you through the steps to clear out the areas in which you have been judging yourself, feeling unworthy, cutting yourself off from love and subconsciously blocking your union. I take you on a gentle journey to connect with your soul family and twin flame's unconditional love that they always have for you. I show you how loved you are so you can really see it, feel it and believe it, opening your heart to receive this love and your own self-love, trusting your twin flame loves you so deeply. This activates your heart to open further to receiving more and more love.
You will align with your true nature, which is Love, and therefore you will begin manifesting the reflection of this unconditional love that you will cultivate for yourself in the form of union with your twin flame.
This is such a powerful activation. You will begin stripping down the layers of unconditional blocks and really begin seeing yourself in this new loving light, releasing fear of being unworthy that can get trapped in our subconscious. This clears it all out making room to allow the love and union in. This is union with self to make way for union with your twin flame.
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