Twin flames, set yourself free. Your pain is from your attachment. It's been said a million times but it is the most simple truth and once we accomplish it we truly experience such utter liberation. Don't you want to feel that way? To have this huge weight lifted from your shoulders? Allowing yourself to rise, to breathe, to expand? Aren't you exhausted from holding on, from hearing the clock ticking, but continuing to go round and round in circles just like the minute hand on your watch?
It's not a sin to let it go. I'll say that again. It's not a sin to let it go. Don't let other's in the community bully you into staying in a karmic loop of self-sacrificing martyrdom. If you're feeling exhausted from the stagnation then it's a clear sign you must move forward. Many of you are being called to do it and if you don't, then the universe will need to step in and create a tower moment, something desperately shocking to crumble the faulty foundations you have been clinging onto (trying to avoid pain and "rejection" at all costs).
But the means by which the demolition of your limiting comfort zone came to fruition is a blessing in disguise, a get out of jail free card. For some of you your twin was the one whom has gifted you with that escape clause, not that you escape the connection, but you can finally escape all the pain associated with it, by GOING THROUGH IT rather than holding on so tightly to try and avoid it. Some of you felt too "guilty" letting go so something happened to force your hand. And now you're grateful for it.
Many of you went through this letting go some time ago and are feeling much more "lighter" and freer. Although you will always love your twin and the love hasn't changed, you do feel such a huge sigh of relief because you have finally, TRULY accepted that this isn't about trying to steer things in a romantic direction to subconsciously avoid feeling rejected. You're happy to be rid of all the pressures, frustrations and insecurities you felt a few months ago when you were still holding on for all those years.
Yet, "Let it go" are such simple words that are far easier said than done. I honestly believe that most people can only accomplish it when they've been pissed off or hurt enough to realise they deserve much more. THAT stops the martyr compulsion in it's tracks. For so long it was about us trying to prove ourselves to this person that we were worthy of their love so we could have it reciprocated from them in return, but then something happened that made us finally stop and say, "Hang on a minute, is this person even worthy of ME?" As a twin flame they are worthy of course, but their actions may not be worthy. But I don't even think it's "their fault" because in the bigger picture, in most cases, the truth is simply this: It's just not meant to work out in that way and therefore it hasn't. Is it their "fault" that they cannot force the soul contract to be different? Is it their fault they were contracted into your life to be your soul brother / sister to help you heal, likely through times of pain? And it's not all one-sided, they get hurt by you too.
For me, I've FINALLY reached unconditional love for my twin flame. I don't feel pissed off or hurt or painful longing. I let go of the fantasy of a perfect romance, or any kind of "romance" in a traditional sense. I let go of blaming him for everything. All that bullshit crumbled and he was the one to HELP me get here (yes through pain and disappointment). That doesn't mean he's a bad person, because he isn't. He's been the one to stand by me and sacrifice so much just to help me learn my biggest life lesson: to know my worth, to stop chasing love outside of myself. I'd been stuck in that cycle with many men throughout my life. My twin is the one who's finally helped me stop that karmic cycle in it's tracks. And he's still standing right by my side, even when I've ghosted him and the whole community these past few months.
You may think this is all disappointing because our connection hasn't transpired into a romantic fairy tale ending and that I've drawn a line under holding out for that, but the sense of peace you reach in letting all that go is much better than a romance built upon weak foundations of insecurity i.e. looking outside of self to the other to complete us and fill in our voids. That's a guarantee for happily NEVER after, never having TRUE peace or healing or love when we've not even reached self-love. Once you learn the lesson from your twin flame, the romantic fantasy spell is broken. And it's NOT a disappointment if you're truly at this point in your healing evolution. You are FREE to finally, TRULY love your twin in the intended way, unconditionally. So much bullshit wounding and longing and desperation used to cloud this love. Now that's gone. What's left? Love. Peace. Gratitude. Freedom. Wanting the other to be happy even if it doesn't involve you. I wept tears of utter ecstasy yesterday as I connected with the pure love I feel for my twin without the old bullshit tainting it.
My twin has had a lot to learn from recent events too. But I hate to think of him getting stuck on blaming himself and beating himself up. You didn't fuck up. You helped me, your soul chose to love me so much that you would sacrifice and risk looking bad in my eyes just to help me finally put aside my karmic cycle that has likely been going on for many, many lifetimes. I recognise how much you love me in that your soul would do this for me, even if you think I am just being too kind.
So to all of you, set yourself free from the anguish of holding on, whether you are divine masculine or feminine. It's the attachment that creates your pain. Holding on is trying to avoid that pain of letting go of the comfort and safety of the dream, but it's lengthening the time that your fears linger in the background. Letting go is to face those fears. To accept a life without your twin in a certain way. My meditation here will help you do this. Many of us are simply putting off the inevitable - the need to accept that on this Earth it's just not meant to pan out in that way. But it doesn't matter, the connection will remain, the bond is as strong as ever. You will be closer in other realms and always are. It doesn't mean it's goodbye, it's just about accepting it for what it is right now.
I may not understand the exact reasons why our circumstances must be the way that they are, but I now accept them, I know it's not down to my twin or his fault or mine. I know it's just meant to be this way for some mysterious reason that only higher powers know. I know our bond never dies, only the illusions, resentments, attachments that cloud it die. The power of love burns through them all eventually. This is the ending of separation - the dissolving of all illusion that clouds us from seeing and being the oneness of Love.
So what happened to me when I let my twin go (let go of any romantic stuff happening)? Under very strange and synchronous circumstances I met a new man. I wasn't looking, wasn't expecting it at all. I've had previous relationships where things worked well on the surface but they never understood my spirituality and therefore I felt invisible. I held onto my twin for so long because I felt incredibly understood on a spiritual level and yet a physical relationship was simply not getting off the ground at all. In these past few months I accepted I was "fucked" when it came to love, that I couldn't have both - a good physical/tangible relationship AND feel understood spiritually by a partner. I'd been holding out for my twin to transition into the physical/tangible relationship so I could have both. But it just wasn't happening lol.
So this new guy I met was looking for his special lady. He'd also come to accept that he would just have to "settle" for someone who wouldn't understand him on a spiritual level. When we met, neither of us consciously knew the other was spiritual. But then we started talking and we were both in shock at how uncannily similar our outlook on life and spirituality is. It's like we've lived a mirror life and he even used to live in the same apartments that I currently live in even though now he lives in a totally different town. Many minute details were exactly the same. We felt we knew each other from another life. He talked about all these spiritual things very openly which is what I'd always wanted from a partner. I told him that he is a divine masculine embodied. He'd even had a very toxic karmic relationship a few years back where the woman had been into dark magic and was a narcissist, like many dm's experience. A few weeks after knowing each other he saw a school photo of me and recognised me in it. Turns out we'd attended the same primary (elementary) school and I was the girl he'd always had a crush on when we were really little.
All the things I used to say to my twin flame about him being too guarded, this new guy started saying to me, because I WAS guarded at the start. It made me realise how me and my twin were so similar and I hadn't fully seen it before. This new guy was saying everything I'd been saying. It made me chuckle.
My point is, I didn't trust the universe. Like I said, I just assumed I was "fucked" when it came to love and couldn't have the spiritual and the physical combined. I'd tried so hard to manifest these things with my twin flame and when I eventually "gave up", BAM! what I'd been asking for all along, these exact qualities I'd been wanting for so long, were suddenly on my doorstep in the form of a different man. I then knew that this whole time, this meeting with the new man must have been manifesting behind the scenes for a long time. But I'd been looking in the wrong direction for so long, towards my twin. But a bigger part of me knows my twin experience prepared me for this new person. In letting go of twinny, I opened myself up to truly receive. Is this new guy the man of my dreams? Who knows lol, I'm not gunna put restricting labels on it this time. I know all relationships will be about learning certain lessons. Could even possibly be karmic. We'll see. But I definitely see this man encompasses all the qualities I'd been holding out for for so long and thinking the universe wasn't going to deliver.
So let it go, whatever you're rigidly holding onto. But I get it, some of us (if not most) need a little prompting from the universe (to say the least!) before we actually do it. Trust the universe (like I didn't!) Whatever is right for you WILL show up at the right time.
If you're struggling to let go in order to truly find your peace and open yourself up to receive that which is right for you or whom is right for you in this present moment, then I really feel my meditation "Fearless Faith: I Am Safe To Trust" will help you. In this meditation I gently guide you through facing your biggest fears of union not happening and help you release the fears that keep you stuck in stagnation so you can open yourself up to receiving your highest good either through twin flame union or whatever is in store in your soul contract to align you with joy, love and happiness. Many clients have reached out to thank me for the profound shifts they have experienced after listening to it. Check it out below.
Love and Light to you on your continued journey!
Fearless Faith: I AM Safe to Trust - Powerful Block Removal Activation MP3
One of our biggest fears surrounding our twin flame connection is often the idea that union will never happen. This fear stirs up all sorts of painful emotions - abandonment, rejection, terror, heartbreak - no fun at all! To make matters worse, our fears make us act in all sorts of desperate ways that actually push away our twin flame - paranoia, jealousy, clingyness, bitterness etc. Our inner child is crying out to be loved in all the ways we felt abandoned and rejected in childhood.
When we yearn so badly for outer validation from our twin to the point of feeling desperate, energetically this repels union because we mistakenly believe we NEED union in order to feel happy, whole, loved etc, but our soul is trying to teach us to first align with union within - taking responsibility for our own emotional wellbeing.
In this meditation I take you to the heart of your fears. Instead of avoiding the fears by looking outside of yourself to your twin for validation and thus continuing to block the union, we will explore integrating these fears. Through allowing ourselves to get more comfortable with the possibility of life without union, with being happy and fulfilled regardless of what happens with our twin flame, we release the fears and allow the flow of our highest good to come into our lives. This opens us up to receiving union with our twin, if that is for our highest good. If not, then we have created a space to become fulfilled and happy within ourselves and our lives regardless, so it's a win-win situation!
Through releasing the fears and knowing you will be okay, more than okay, if union didn't happen, you reach inner union. You know that you are always in control of your perspective of how you see and live your life and so you can be happy if you choose to be no matter what.
This meditation activation removes the fears, brings you comfort and allows you to relax and align with inner union and outer union.
40 mins length
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