Our thoughts are a very powerful force. For a long time (sometimes our whole life) we can walk around not realising that we are always co-creating with the universe. When we are unaware of this fact, we create our realities by default - often we attract many experiences we don't want. But when we are aware that we have the power to totally transform our lives into the joyful, love-filled and passionate life we have always dreamed of, we begin seeing every door of new opportunity open up to us like never before.
So we begin our journey to try and become a conscious manifestor. But the same old crap we don't want still shows up in our lives, sometimes over and over. We may feel confused and even angry at the universe for not co-operating with us! We think we've become conscious that we are co-creators and we are now focusing on what we want, so why is it not showing up in our reality? We think the universe is holding out on us. Is this some kind of trick? A punishment? Or is it just divine timing?
Well, in truth, divine timing is just another way of saying "alignment". Alignment is when you become a vibrational match with what you want to attract into your life.
Many people become stuck in a one-foot-in, one-foot-out kind of energy to begin with when it comes to their manifestation efforts without even realising it. You see, we've reached a huge achievement in the first place by realising that we are co-creators and then actively trying to focus on what we want to manifest in order to align with it. But this is only half of the job done. The other half of an effective co-creator equation is when we also eradicate all the limiting beliefs which block our manifestations, or cause a resistance or misalignment (often on a subconscious level).
You see, when we are trying to focus on what we want to manifest, all sorts of subconscious fears or beliefs about why we can't have that manifestation also come up. These limiting beliefs "counteract" or "cancel out" what we are trying to align with, or we may achieve some results but they are shaky at best and not the full manifestation we are hoping for. That might seem like a bad thing or a major pain in the ass, but in truth it's a blessing in disguise.
The reason this stage is a good thing is because it brings up into our conscious awareness all of our previously subconscious limiting beliefs that were causing us to manifest what we didn't want by default. Now we are consciously aware we can start the pruning stage and release the limiting beliefs that before we didn't even know we had. This helps us to heal the separation (un)consciousness. This is the stage when we foster increased faith in the universe and our worth (if we can be successful in releasing the doubts) and come into alignment with what we want to attract. We learn to "get out of our own way".
In the twin flame community there is so much well-meaning advice and guidance, much to do with the "runner" masculine and in some circles there's even downright condemnation of the divine masculine or whomever is labelled as a "runner". When we are exposed to so much of this type of information or hearing people's anger as they retell their experiences of so much drama with their twin then we start to soak up the idea that the union process is "hopeless" and an endless "battle" to try and navigate through to come into harmonious union. We start to form with very limiting beliefs and think successful unions are very rare indeed and perhaps just down to random luck in some cases. These limiting and sometimes even toxic beliefs then turn into our vibration. Whatever we belief, focus on or become a vibrational match to starts showing up in our reality.
We may even believe we have to heal a million and one things in order to become a match for union. Yes, healing is very important, but we can subconsciously fall into the trap of constantly seeing ourselves as "broken" or the journey to union as impossible, never-ending and complicated. We may look to the outside and see our twin as "broken" or that they are never going to change. You may realise that you are mirrors and think the amount of illusions / wounds / conditioning that are reflecting back to you is just too much to handle. The healing journey can start feeling like you are searching for a needle in a haystack. "You should be doing this, you should be doing that..." on and on and on.
Soon the camel's back has to break, where you shout "Enough!" and you cannot continue on this path of focusing on "blocks" anymore which only end up making you feel broken and like you're failing on this path and union will never happen. Whatever we focus on, we manifest! Healing is so important, but one of the main things is about releasing this false notion that we have to become perfect or we have to fit into some kind of spiritual paradigm in order to be "worthy" of union. When we subconsciously use this healing path as a way to condemn and judge ourselves as "failing" then we've got a little lost down this healing path.
So how do you move past these limiting beliefs in order to believe in union and therefore manifest it? Well it all starts with becoming aware of what your limiting beliefs are that are out of alignment with the happy and harmonious union you want to align with. You need to become aware that you are (or are partially) still focusing on "what's wrong" rather than on "what's right". It can even come down to when you put too much pressure on yourself to try and "become perfect" in order to align with union. When you focus on what you believe is "wrong" with you or your twin then you are missing the point that this isn't about changing yourselves to become worthy, but more about changing your perception of yourself and your twin to remember you are both already worthy, you just couldn't see it. If you see your twin as "weak", as "cruel" or "unfeeling" then that is how he will show up for you.
If you are the divine feminine then you are the one to go first in this domino effect of change because you are aligned with the higher chakras of insight to be the one to first see yourself and your twin beyond the illusions. You are the magnetic force that can birth this change, this union within yourself and with your twin flame.
This is your initiation into becoming a conscious co-creator. It's about transcending the old tendencies to judge yourself and / or your twin as being "unworthy". When we start to truly love ourselves, we reach an inner union with our true essence and we can begin to embody that in our physical lives. When we achieve this inner union all the things that our ego convinces us we have to fix and change simply dissolve because we've remembered who we are and that we are worthy. This alignment with love within unites us with love without. This is the key to union with our twin flame. They start seeing themselves in their true light too and the and the illusions of separation and all notions of "unworthiness" begin to dissolve. You return to your strength and the union consciousness. This is when we both feel strong enough to take action and choose love over fear.
If you are currently stuck in the viscous cycle of subconsciously focusing on what's wrong or what's blocking you or your twin, rather than simply aligning with unconditional love for self and your twin (where all the other illusions and limitations will then naturally come into the light effortlessly to be released) then I have put together a Conscious Co-Creator Kit which consists of two video teachings plus the powerful Twin Flame Union Manifestation eBook to really help you re-program the limiting beliefs in order to heal these blocks and align you with faith, what's RIGHT about you and your twin and ultimately union. The kit is only $22.22 (you get a product free when you buy them together in this kit which is a saving of $11.11). *For those of you who already have one of the items in the kit but would still like the 3 for 2 offer on all products, type in the code 3for2 at checkout*
What you get in the Conscious Co-Creator Kit:
1) Video: How to Manifest a Balanced Union (25 minutes)
How to stop seeing your twin as "behind", "asleep" or in any dis-empowering light. Start seeing them for who they truly are in soul to help them align with their true divine masculine nature in the 3D
2) Video: Breaking Through the Twin Flame Glass Ceiling (25 minutes)
How to weed out the limiting beliefs to do with the twin flame journey that only serve to block you, including healing the absorption of other divine feminine's anger and stories of drama that you've subconsciously taken on as your own limiting beliefs.
3) Twin Flame Reunion Manifestation eBook PDF (75 pages)
How to master your manifestation powers by becoming a conscious co-creator. I take you through the steps in an easy to understand way and help you weed out limiting beliefs you never even knew you had in order to make way for you to align with what you truly want.
The insights in this kit can dramatically transform your connection. Are you ready to take this seriously and take your union to the next level?
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