4/26/2019 29 Comments Twin Flames: Let It Go To ReceiveTwin flames, set yourself free. Your pain is from your attachment. It's been said a million times but it is the most simple truth and once we accomplish it we truly experience such utter liberation. Don't you want to feel that way? To have this huge weight lifted from your shoulders? Allowing yourself to rise, to breathe, to expand? Aren't you exhausted from holding on, from hearing the clock ticking, but continuing to go round and round in circles just like the minute hand on your watch? It's not a sin to let it go. I'll say that again. It's not a sin to let it go. Don't let other's in the community bully you into staying in a karmic loop of self-sacrificing martyrdom. If you're feeling exhausted from the stagnation then it's a clear sign you must move forward. Many of you are being called to do it and if you don't, then the universe will need to step in and create a tower moment, something desperately shocking to crumble the faulty foundations you have been clinging onto (trying to avoid pain and "rejection" at all costs). But the means by which the demolition of your limiting comfort zone came to fruition is a blessing in disguise, a get out of jail free card. For some of you your twin was the one whom has gifted you with that escape clause, not that you escape the connection, but you can finally escape all the pain associated with it, by GOING THROUGH IT rather than holding on so tightly to try and avoid it. Some of you felt too "guilty" letting go so something happened to force your hand. And now you're grateful for it. Many of you went through this letting go some time ago and are feeling much more "lighter" and freer. Although you will always love your twin and the love hasn't changed, you do feel such a huge sigh of relief because you have finally, TRULY accepted that this isn't about trying to steer things in a romantic direction to subconsciously avoid feeling rejected. You're happy to be rid of all the pressures, frustrations and insecurities you felt a few months ago when you were still holding on for all those years. Yet, "Let it go" are such simple words that are far easier said than done. I honestly believe that most people can only accomplish it when they've been pissed off or hurt enough to realise they deserve much more. THAT stops the martyr compulsion in it's tracks. For so long it was about us trying to prove ourselves to this person that we were worthy of their love so we could have it reciprocated from them in return, but then something happened that made us finally stop and say, "Hang on a minute, is this person even worthy of ME?" As a twin flame they are worthy of course, but their actions may not be worthy. But I don't even think it's "their fault" because in the bigger picture, in most cases, the truth is simply this: It's just not meant to work out in that way and therefore it hasn't. Is it their "fault" that they cannot force the soul contract to be different? Is it their fault they were contracted into your life to be your soul brother / sister to help you heal, likely through times of pain? And it's not all one-sided, they get hurt by you too. For me, I've FINALLY reached unconditional love for my twin flame. I don't feel pissed off or hurt or painful longing. I let go of the fantasy of a perfect romance, or any kind of "romance" in a traditional sense. I let go of blaming him for everything. All that bullshit crumbled and he was the one to HELP me get here (yes through pain and disappointment). That doesn't mean he's a bad person, because he isn't. He's been the one to stand by me and sacrifice so much just to help me learn my biggest life lesson: to know my worth, to stop chasing love outside of myself. I'd been stuck in that cycle with many men throughout my life. My twin is the one who's finally helped me stop that karmic cycle in it's tracks. And he's still standing right by my side, even when I've ghosted him and the whole community these past few months. You may think this is all disappointing because our connection hasn't transpired into a romantic fairy tale ending and that I've drawn a line under holding out for that, but the sense of peace you reach in letting all that go is much better than a romance built upon weak foundations of insecurity i.e. looking outside of self to the other to complete us and fill in our voids. That's a guarantee for happily NEVER after, never having TRUE peace or healing or love when we've not even reached self-love. Once you learn the lesson from your twin flame, the romantic fantasy spell is broken. And it's NOT a disappointment if you're truly at this point in your healing evolution. You are FREE to finally, TRULY love your twin in the intended way, unconditionally. So much bullshit wounding and longing and desperation used to cloud this love. Now that's gone. What's left? Love. Peace. Gratitude. Freedom. Wanting the other to be happy even if it doesn't involve you. I wept tears of utter ecstasy yesterday as I connected with the pure love I feel for my twin without the old bullshit tainting it. My twin has had a lot to learn from recent events too. But I hate to think of him getting stuck on blaming himself and beating himself up. You didn't fuck up. You helped me, your soul chose to love me so much that you would sacrifice and risk looking bad in my eyes just to help me finally put aside my karmic cycle that has likely been going on for many, many lifetimes. I recognise how much you love me in that your soul would do this for me, even if you think I am just being too kind. So to all of you, set yourself free from the anguish of holding on, whether you are divine masculine or feminine. It's the attachment that creates your pain. Holding on is trying to avoid that pain of letting go of the comfort and safety of the dream, but it's lengthening the time that your fears linger in the background. Letting go is to face those fears. To accept a life without your twin in a certain way. My meditation here will help you do this. Many of us are simply putting off the inevitable - the need to accept that on this Earth it's just not meant to pan out in that way. But it doesn't matter, the connection will remain, the bond is as strong as ever. You will be closer in other realms and always are. It doesn't mean it's goodbye, it's just about accepting it for what it is right now. I may not understand the exact reasons why our circumstances must be the way that they are, but I now accept them, I know it's not down to my twin or his fault or mine. I know it's just meant to be this way for some mysterious reason that only higher powers know. I know our bond never dies, only the illusions, resentments, attachments that cloud it die. The power of love burns through them all eventually. This is the ending of separation - the dissolving of all illusion that clouds us from seeing and being the oneness of Love. So what happened to me when I let my twin go (let go of any romantic stuff happening)? Under very strange and synchronous circumstances I met a new man. I wasn't looking, wasn't expecting it at all. I've had previous relationships where things worked well on the surface but they never understood my spirituality and therefore I felt invisible. I held onto my twin for so long because I felt incredibly understood on a spiritual level and yet a physical relationship was simply not getting off the ground at all. In these past few months I accepted I was "fucked" when it came to love, that I couldn't have both - a good physical/tangible relationship AND feel understood spiritually by a partner. I'd been holding out for my twin to transition into the physical/tangible relationship so I could have both. But it just wasn't happening lol. So this new guy I met was looking for his special lady. He'd also come to accept that he would just have to "settle" for someone who wouldn't understand him on a spiritual level. When we met, neither of us consciously knew the other was spiritual. But then we started talking and we were both in shock at how uncannily similar our outlook on life and spirituality is. It's like we've lived a mirror life and he even used to live in the same apartments that I currently live in even though now he lives in a totally different town. Many minute details were exactly the same. We felt we knew each other from another life. He talked about all these spiritual things very openly which is what I'd always wanted from a partner. I told him that he is a divine masculine embodied. He'd even had a very toxic karmic relationship a few years back where the woman had been into dark magic and was a narcissist, like many dm's experience. A few weeks after knowing each other he saw a school photo of me and recognised me in it. Turns out we'd attended the same primary (elementary) school and I was the girl he'd always had a crush on when we were really little. All the things I used to say to my twin flame about him being too guarded, this new guy started saying to me, because I WAS guarded at the start. It made me realise how me and my twin were so similar and I hadn't fully seen it before. This new guy was saying everything I'd been saying. It made me chuckle. My point is, I didn't trust the universe. Like I said, I just assumed I was "fucked" when it came to love and couldn't have the spiritual and the physical combined. I'd tried so hard to manifest these things with my twin flame and when I eventually "gave up", BAM! what I'd been asking for all along, these exact qualities I'd been wanting for so long, were suddenly on my doorstep in the form of a different man. I then knew that this whole time, this meeting with the new man must have been manifesting behind the scenes for a long time. But I'd been looking in the wrong direction for so long, towards my twin. But a bigger part of me knows my twin experience prepared me for this new person. In letting go of twinny, I opened myself up to truly receive. Is this new guy the man of my dreams? Who knows lol, I'm not gunna put restricting labels on it this time. I know all relationships will be about learning certain lessons. Could even possibly be karmic. We'll see. But I definitely see this man encompasses all the qualities I'd been holding out for for so long and thinking the universe wasn't going to deliver. So let it go, whatever you're rigidly holding onto. But I get it, some of us (if not most) need a little prompting from the universe (to say the least!) before we actually do it. Trust the universe (like I didn't!) Whatever is right for you WILL show up at the right time. If you're struggling to let go in order to truly find your peace and open yourself up to receive that which is right for you or whom is right for you in this present moment, then I really feel my meditation "Fearless Faith: I Am Safe To Trust" will help you. In this meditation I gently guide you through facing your biggest fears of union not happening and help you release the fears that keep you stuck in stagnation so you can open yourself up to receiving your highest good either through twin flame union or whatever is in store in your soul contract to align you with joy, love and happiness. Many clients have reached out to thank me for the profound shifts they have experienced after listening to it. Check it out below. Love and Light to you on your continued journey! Karen x Fearless Faith: I AM Safe to Trust - Powerful Block Removal Activation MP3One of our biggest fears surrounding our twin flame connection is often the idea that union will never happen. This fear stirs up all sorts of painful emotions - abandonment, rejection, terror, heartbreak - no fun at all! To make matters worse, our fears make us act in all sorts of desperate ways that actually push away our twin flame - paranoia, jealousy, clingyness, bitterness etc. Our inner child is crying out to be loved in all the ways we felt abandoned and rejected in childhood. When we yearn so badly for outer validation from our twin to the point of feeling desperate, energetically this repels union because we mistakenly believe we NEED union in order to feel happy, whole, loved etc, but our soul is trying to teach us to first align with union within - taking responsibility for our own emotional wellbeing. In this meditation I take you to the heart of your fears. Instead of avoiding the fears by looking outside of yourself to your twin for validation and thus continuing to block the union, we will explore integrating these fears. Through allowing ourselves to get more comfortable with the possibility of life without union, with being happy and fulfilled regardless of what happens with our twin flame, we release the fears and allow the flow of our highest good to come into our lives. This opens us up to receiving union with our twin, if that is for our highest good. If not, then we have created a space to become fulfilled and happy within ourselves and our lives regardless, so it's a win-win situation! Through releasing the fears and knowing you will be okay, more than okay, if union didn't happen, you reach inner union. You know that you are always in control of your perspective of how you see and live your life and so you can be happy if you choose to be no matter what. This meditation activation removes the fears, brings you comfort and allows you to relax and align with inner union and outer union. 40 mins length For legal reasons I must state that this MP3 is for entertainment purposes only. 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29 Comments
V.
4/26/2019 05:00:12 am
Wow Karen! That's amazing! Exactly the same thing happened to me! The minute I let go and went another direction, I met this awesome new person without even looking for him! Isn't life wonderful and full of magic!:) I'm so happy to read this update from you and glad to see you're back! Lots of live, V.xx
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D.
4/26/2019 05:22:16 am
So lovely and helpful to hear this. Yes, exactly same happened to me too in every way you describe: Its good to hear my path has been the same as other DF's. Onward and upward in unconditional love. Xx
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Tammy
4/26/2019 08:57:02 am
My thoughts exactly. The same thing happened to me this past week. Letting go brings such amazing expansion, freedom, unconditional Love, Trust and Peace. I am so excited to learn that others are experiencing the exact same freedom. Divine timing😊
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Rubi Winfield
4/26/2019 05:44:02 am
I have been in the letting go phase for a while . But finding someone new for me as always felt like a challenge. That hurts because even when I work to imagine new love and balanced loved, while I have self love . I just can't invision another person. I have issues when I meet good men. I feel I don't have chemistry with them are the trail on my end goes dry . And I really am lost for words because I blocked myself from my twin and am currently pregnant for him. Maybe we are the new wave. I have been following you for a while . I always seemed to resonate. But I'm just in owe of what's going on . I keep feeling reassured that I'm supposed to have a life with my twin. But I have been Working on adapting to that not happening and him being with someone else . But on my end I don't understand why I don't feel connections to men that I meet .They are usually like ideal for me. It's like they coming left n right. But I just don't feel right. And I'm not one to force anything and I feel emotionally guarded . Thank you for this hope. That no matter what I assure my self whatever is will be in my highest good. . Im constantly praying for alignment with my true path .
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iris
4/26/2019 06:19:16 am
this message arrived at the perfect moment! brought a lot of peace in the heavy pain..thank you!!!
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Siobhan
4/26/2019 06:50:14 am
Hey Karen,
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Venduls
4/26/2019 01:27:32 pm
Thank you for your words. ❤
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Di
4/26/2019 08:33:38 am
Incredible Karen! I have had readings with you and watching your videos since 2012... when you went MIA, I prayed it wasn’t depression and that you would heal gently. I could feel your frustrations building and I completely understand! I am behind you to the point of releasing and one day ready to receive. This fricking spell does need to be broken in this community. Thank you for helping in this! Sending you unconditional love, light, guidance, and awareness of your true path. Oxox Glad to have you back!
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Laurel Letendre
4/26/2019 10:52:49 am
My goodness...amazing how the universe works!! The exact shift has happened to me as well! I've been working on letting go for months and finally feeling free from the twin flame obsession. I have accepted now that we aren't meant to be in this lifetime and if possible and looking toward friendship and gratitude for the lesson of self love and self discipline. I am still not quite opento a new man appearing on the scene but have had thoughts about my twinner preparing me for true love romantic relationship. Or perhaps he was my false twin if there is such a thing lol.
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Nanette Jackson
4/26/2019 11:17:19 am
Thank you for your message.So glad you are back.
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Nannan
4/26/2019 12:45:11 pm
Wow wow wow. Karen your updates is spot on every single time since I followed you back in 2016. Like some of the people above said, your updates always have been in line with what I had been through at the time, and this one is no exception at all. I have finally giving up to form a romantic / marriage kind of relationship with my twin back in Feb after tried some desperate means, and guess what the min I decided to give up the min I realized my good friend who has been in love with me for many years have already been by my side and he is a much more suitable partner for this life time. We are in a much better and smoother relationship compare to the one I had with my twin. Not much pain nor extreme joy but like water, it s lasting and nourishing. I agree that the connection with our twin is always going to be there no matter if we are in communication or not. I still think about him every time I have a quiet moment to myself. But that s pretty much all the attention I could give him now is that thought of him momentarily in my life. I only have gratitude for him to help me understand myself and heal some of my deep trauma. I love him unconditionally and from a distance. Thank you so much for the reassurance of this message to tell me that I m on the right track.... much love to you .
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Heer
4/26/2019 01:02:21 pm
Omg! Exactly the same has happened, the week before last...Out of nowhere, he appeared. And that very day we met i was so blinded by the twins disappointments I couldn't help but cry all day...I put on the brave face and carried on with work, almost cancelling his appointment with me.
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Vendula
4/26/2019 01:23:34 pm
Thank you for your words. Especially the last part I needed to hear. Let's let in so e fresh air...
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Vendula
4/26/2019 01:19:01 pm
Omg, yes! I have read only first couple sentences and I know we are in sync. I let him go. Totally. And the pull back is strong...but I know it is not Love which is pulling me back, but codependency, habit and fear (fear of letting him be...because I do not believe he would ever come back, he would not forget about me..). Biggest lesson of my life...Trust that all is well. I never ever let things come to me, learning in the early childhood that I need to fight for everything, even for my place and most of all for Love. I have learnt that I need to earn it, and that if I do not micromanage everything, I will become invisible.
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Kate Gillespie
4/26/2019 02:44:06 pm
I am currently on a month long trip in an attempt to finally let go of my twin connection. I wish I could say I truly understand all that has happened but dont. After having dreams and visions of him 24 years ago I met him 2 years ago and it feels like him and I are the same person. I have grown and matured emotionally as a person through all the heartache and disappointment and hope he has too.
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Lianne Gravitis
4/26/2019 02:55:58 pm
It's certainly the shift of the divine feminine as this is exactly what is going on this week for me as well! Minus the new dude situation right now! Ha! But self love, surrendering to the universe and yearning for that freedom and inner peace from the attachment. I even wrote it out this week and burned it haha thank you for your words! Certainly resonated and I'm open to all possibilities even though I truly feel we are destined for this lifetime ❤️
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R
4/26/2019 03:30:26 pm
I started reading it...and stopped. Not because I’m triggered by it..but because I don’t believe in a god that would show us as twin flames the most beautiful love we could ever wish for only to keep it just outside our grasp. It has nothing to do with how much I love myself. And I think every person who is a true twin flame will not be fully fulfilled in another relationship. We are human beings. And we ALL desire to love and be loved. Let’s stop kidding ourselves. I will forever believe that the god I pray to shower me this type of love because I deserve this love. As does my twin. I know fully what my wounds were and I know fully what my twins wounds are. I understand the journey. And I fully expect to reunite as a whole, healthy, complete couple. And i will never subscribe to the notion that this love was presented to me, that this love was meant to help me grow, and that my god just decides “good for you, now go spend the rest of your life with second best”...and anyone who is a true twin flame should never subscribe to that either.
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Kate Gillespie
4/27/2019 06:22:12 am
I feel the same and although I am no longer heartbroken about separation I still wonder why God would give me a vision 24 years ago then I would eventually meet this person. In my case there is a massive age gap and I know this will cause issues with other people if we come into physical union. However I seen us together in the vision and believed in the twin flame journey before the internet
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Robin
4/27/2019 03:15:01 pm
It’s nice to see that you feel the same way. We also have a large age gap..and we also spent 12 amazing years together before separation. We always knew something was “different” about our connection but never knew what it was until we separated. I will continue to believe in the god I pray to..I will NOT quit on my twin. And I will not subscribe to any notion that someone will come along and sweep me off my feet and make me question who I am. Sadly, I’ve seen too many twin flame “experts” all of a sudden change their beliefs and philosophies based on “finding” a new person...in the end, I just don’t think they were or are a twin flame. Because NO ONE will ever come along and “do it” for true twins...unless it’s the other half of their souls. So..stay true to what you know..and don’t let karmic situations make you question who you are. Stay strong! You will be rewarded one day! 5/10/2019 10:09:31 pm
I wonder....cause.....i payed close attention to the words My Sister/Twin used....
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R
5/13/2019 02:40:50 pm
I love you and will always Love you. No matter what we go through, we will grow through it. We are getting the tribulations over with so that we will have smooth sailing when we unite. I have faith in our union. We will be together soon, even if I have to hunt you down. I will find you no matter what it takes. Don't be surprised if I just show up in your life, reminiscent of when we first met. Tootles my Love! 5/19/2019 01:56:45 pm
Mrs.Bug....i hope You liked the small package from Your Sister Martene...it was fun putting it together....i am typing here this Sunday morning to tell You...."I bet You....20 dollars...You will not be able to just find me"
Ursula
4/28/2019 09:37:07 am
OMGosh! I let go of my twin last Fall and worked on healing myself. I took a deep look at what I truly want and what I was accepting. And this released so much pressure. I feel so liberated and now understand how to love myself first. What a beautiful feeling. 💖I was able to reach out to my twin to heal our relationship and continue our friendship in a way that’s realistic. I am ready for the Universe to reflect who I am today in a Divine Maculine.
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Alexis
4/28/2019 11:00:11 am
Not trying to discount anything that you said, but with all that I've read it doesn't make any sense to me to be exposed to your true twin flame and also supposed to end up with someone else. Just wondering why the person from before couldn't be a karmic partner or false twin and then this guy now could be your true twin...and maybe all the stuff that happened with the first guy was actually to prepare for the true twin, because now you're in a state of complete surrender. Again, just my take because I also believe no one can tell anyone else if they've truly met their
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Nichol
4/29/2019 09:19:37 pm
I don't agree with this. Do monks choose Hinduism because Buddhism or Christians Choose Catholicism because it isn't "working" you have to stick to your guns. If you truly want something you can not give up. I know I agree with you on surrendering the connection. That I felt 100% shit probably 111% haha. However to give another what belongs to my Twin is something I do not resonate with. We all have our own truth to live. I refuse to do to him what has been done to me. That cycle has been broken. I give always and will always be open to my Twin. He is within me. I know union is upon us. Temptation comes in the most clever of disguises. You must be strong and hold tight to your truth, you are worthy of True Unconditional Love.
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Robin
5/2/2019 12:42:14 pm
Nichol perfectly stated. I wish you luck while you stay true to your journey.
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Nichol
5/2/2019 05:44:59 pm
Thank you Robin! 💚🕉❤
The Chosen One
5/14/2019 12:08:38 am
We are destined to be, what are you afraid of? It's time to clean up this mess we live in. Are you ready? Because I am, I am ready to start making a bigger impact on this world. I need you by my side to do it. The longer we are apart the more our truth fades, no matter the faith I continue to have. I can not single handedly hold this union together. You My Love must assist me. I need you Baby! We need eachother. Please SEE US! Open the Door, We await you on the other side.
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Loving Us
9/20/2019 08:43:22 pm
Tonight I find comfort in our words. I miss us and hope you are well. Happy Birthday to the little one on this day. I can not believe our littles are growing so quick. They are such good kids, 3 years sweet man. It has been so long, I hold true to our Love. Today has been another day where I laugh/cry because of our Love. Our union is NOW. I can feel you every day. Temptation comes when you are close to union, This I know. However temptation isn't temptation when you are us. Nothing shall stray me from our path. I See You. I feel you, I Love You and every other being in existence. But you I Love in another way, a way that can not be explained, only felt. We still have to come up with another word for our Love as I am stumped, so I know that is something we must do together. You are my truest reflection, and I yours. See you when the time is right, and tjis time I mean it. No more chasing, or running. Union shall happen when the time is perfect. I Love You and everything you are. All the walls have crumbled and only our Love remains. Kiss Kiss! See you when we are 111% ready. I Love tour feet for how they found me.
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